Archive for December, 2009

How to live richly — simply

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

SimplifyBest-selling author and entrepreneur Michael Masterson is all about helping people create wealth and achieve financial independence the old-fashioned way. Yes, through hard work, time management and intelligence. He doesn’t believe in get-rich-quick schemes.

Masterson’s books and blog are filled with common-sense advice. But what I most enjoy are his essays, like the one I am sharing here from a recent Early To Rise (ETR) newsletter.

His take on life always gives pause for thought. And while he has plenty of his own ideas and bon mots, Masterson is not afraid to give credit to someone else who is on a similar path. If you’re like me, you’ll find plenty of inspiration in his essay below, titled The Simplicity Imperative. The topic is especially timely as we review the past year’s achievements and march into 2010 with new resolutions in hand.

Follow Masterson’s advice — and check out the book he endorses — and you’ll not only simplify your life, you will live richly without breaking the bank.

Happy New Year!

THE SIMPLICITY IMPERATIVE
By Michael Masterson
Much of what you read in ETR is directed at helping you earn more money and achieve financial independence. But what many people mistake for wealth is pure junk: the oversized plasma TV, the 2010 Ferrari, the custom-built estate home.

In fact, a big part of living rich is getting rid of most of that stuff. The truly rich don’t clutter their lives with overpriced baubles. They prefer to lead their lives with fewer, but more valuable, things. They spend their days doing what pleases them and shunning what doesn’t.

That’s what we all want, isn’t it? Yet how few of us succeed! Still, it’s perfectly possible for people on an ordinary income to live as the really rich (balance-sheet rich rather than income-statement rich) do.

We’ve talked about many practical strategies to do that in past issues of Early to Rise. You can make a great start by following what I call the “simplicity imperative.”

By that I mean getting rid of the junk experiences and possessions that crowd your life and give you stress and replacing them with quality experiences and possessions that bring you enduring pleasure.

Let me give you a few examples:

Trade in that oversized house you can’t afford. Move into something modest that you can gradually fix up and fill with furniture and art that mean something to you. Make it your own little paradise. Make it the kind of house that will make friends feel welcome and comfortable.

Instead of buying the hottest, most expensive new car on the market, buy a slightly used high-quality car that you can enjoy driving for 10 years or more.

Give away two-thirds of your clothes and wear only those that make you feel great. You know which ones they are already. Do it and see how quickly you feel richer.

And that is just the beginning. You can apply this simplification strategy to your work, and even your relationships. Simplifying your life is not an option if you want to live rich. It is an absolute necessity.

Having two beautifully tailored suits or dresses that fit you perfectly makes you feel infinitely classier than having two dozen that will look dated in a matter of months. Having one small home that is well-maintained and contains a treasure trove of little artifacts that say something good about you — your character, your values, your interests — is a hundred times more impressive than living in a 10,000-square-foot McMansion that somebody else decorated for you.

And when it comes to how you spend your time, clearing out the junk activities will make you richer, too. Turn off the TV, the computer and the video games and you’ll turn on your spirit to a world full of gratifying experiences.

Less in your life will give you more. More productivity. More passion. More meaning, love, friendship, serenity, etc.

This isn’t a new idea — but though most of us acknowledge that it’s true, we need to be reminded of it from time to time. I’ve been recently reminded of it by a wonderful new book written by Alex Green. In The Secret of Shelter Island, Alex explains how you can employ the simplicity imperative to start living a truly rich life.

“I’m not a moon-eyed idealist who believes that money does not matter,” Alex says. “It does. But an individual who is driven by his lust for ‘more’ is hardly different than the donkey who is propelled onward by a carrot dangling at the end of a stick.”

Drawing on some of today’s best minds and many of history’s greatest thinkers, The Secret of Shelter Island is both a much-needed source of inspiration and an illuminating look at the pursuit of the good life.? The book is organized around four central themes …

In Part I, “A Rich Mind,” Alex takes a look at the main “disease” affecting Americans — affluenza. He explores the importance of money in your life — including what it gives you and what it costs you. He discusses the difference between getting rich and being rich. And he addresses the true meaning of success.

In Part II, “What Matters Most,” he explains how to calculate your real net worth — without using a financial statement. He helps you recognize the most valuable thing you own. And he reveals how to live a better, more relaxed life.

In Part III, “Attitudes and Gratitude,” Alex offers powerful insights based on a deceptively simple philosophy of life. He delves into the importance of gratitude, the destructiveness of greed and envy, and the transformative power of adversity.

In the final section of the book — “The Search for Meaning” — he delivers a refreshing take on the universal principles that guide us all — or should.

The Secret of Shelter Island is full of practical wisdom and thought-provoking commentary on what it means to be truly wealthy. ?In difficult financial times, we are prompted to re-examine what really matters in our lives — a process that can open up amazing opportunities. The Secret of Shelter Island provides fresh perspectives, compelling ideas and a profound understanding of how to lead a richer life. And the writing is shockingly good.

How to turn shovelling into art

Thursday, December 24th, 2009

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Saw the news the other day: that was some winter storm in the Eastern United States! Reminded me of my years living in Ottawa, Canada’s national capital, where there is still snow in the backyard come April.

Thankfully, I’m in Leamington now, in beautiful Essex County in southwestern Ontario, so shovelling shouldn’t require too much of my time. But while winters here are definitely milder, I’m not crazy enough to believe that life in the Tomato Capital of Canada does not require snow boots and a shovel or two.

After living in a condo for two winters, this will be my first year back shovelling.  That’s what comes with owning a house with a driveway again. You might think I’m mad, and maybe I am, but I’m secretly pining for a real Ottawa winter. Snow by the foot? I say bring it on!

Shovelling makes me happy. That’s probably because I see shovelling as an art form. It’s a thing of beauty. And beauty can do wonders to lift your spirits high. You know that good feeling you get when you give the house a good cleaning and declutter? Shovelling can do that for you.

Turning snow-shovelling into an art is easy when you follow my secret family method. Before you know it, you’ll be creating a true thing of beauty right in your own driveway! And feeling great!

But I’m getting ahead of myself.

Like any art, there are a few simple rules that must be followed if you are to know success — measured in the number of dog-walkers and motorists who slow down to nod in appreciation as you stand in your driveway, your face flushed with pride, surveying your handiwork.

The rules that I share here are the result of seeing one too many pathetically shovelled driveways. One driveway was so bad there was barely room to squeeze a car in between snowbanks! Talk about clutter. But I don’t blame the homeowner. It’s not his fault that no one taught him what apparently only members of my immediate family know: cutting corners is the secret to the best-looking hand-shovelled driveway in town.

So our secret is out.  But before you put it into practice, here’s what you should know:

Turning shovelling into an art form begins with the realization that the power to shape snowbanks is in your hands — not Mother Nature’s.

This leads to Rule #1: create your snowbanks as soon as the first snow falls. For example, if you have a double driveway, don’t just shovel the asphalt. Think big. Think wide. Think mountains and valleys. That four-inch snowfall may not seem like much at first, but come March, when the snowbanks are eight feet tall and hard as ice, you don’t want to feel as if your driveway is closing in on you.

So, with the first snowfall, get out there and clear the driveway, plus at least two feet of lawn on each side. That’s Rule #2. Then, stand on the roadway behind the left snowbank and advance about three feet. Stick your shovel into the snowbank and draw a line at a 45-degree angle. Remove all the snow outside the cut mark.

Repeat on right side of driveway.

Cutting halfway up the lawn (Rule #3) may seem like a lot of work, but it’s worth it. You’ll now have room to put the garbage out for pickup; have plenty of space to drive in and out without those tricky tight turns; and, most important, you’ll be able to see what’s coming when you back out of the driveway.

Now, just one more step to go.

Since traditions evolve, I have taken it upon myself to add one new step (Rule #4) to the corner-cutting driveway-clearing method of art creation. This involves removing all the heavy snow beyond the bottom of your driveway.

OK, yes, I mean shovel the street. But only your half. And only the width of your new super-wide driveway. And don’t forget to toss the snow up and over your new corner snowbanks.

The reason for this final step is simple: If you’ve cleared the street, there is nothing left for the snowplow to throw back into your driveway. Shovel once and you’re through.

My husband once accused me of making up this corner-cutting thing, but my siblings set him straight. “Of course you have to cut corners,” they exclaimed.

He claims we’re all crazy — and maybe we are. But there’s no denying we always have the best-looking driveways in town. And big smiles on our faces.

There’s nothing like the feeling you get from a job well done.