Archive for November, 2009

For book lovers and poets

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009

BooksI love books.

Before I downsized to a condo in Cobourg (that’s before I upsized to a rancher on the lake in Leamington), our house in Ottawa was filled with books — mine, mostly novels, and my husband’s, a potpourri of novels, history, politics, geography, travel (how many books on Ireland does one person need?) and gardening (I won’t even mention the old novels he had read as a child and carried with him all these years).

When we sold off our furniture and other things so we could squeeze just what we needed into a 1,165-square-foot space, books were among our prized possessions to go. But we weren’t ruthless. We decided to keep our Canadian novel collection, plus some travel books and a few other personal treasures. It wasn’t easy parting with any of our books, but it did make living in the condo a whole lot more breathable.

Now that we have upsized to about 1,800 square feet of space, I see books slowly creeping back into the house (the Terry Fox Used Book Sale was hard to resist and Alice Munro won’t stop writing!). They are piling up in drawers and desks. And at least half of them are Canadian, which means they will have to be squeezed onto our already full bookshelves. I am starting to feel claustrophobic.

A new friend, Carlinda D’Alimonte, a teacher by trade, is a writer of poetry. She’s been published — twice — and graciously brought her newest book as a gift when at the house recently for Sunday brunch. It is a slim book, so I will forgive her — it fits nicely on my bedside table. Titled Other Living Things, the book  “deals with the hard process of undoing the hurt of childhood and adolescence.” Sounds a little like decluttering: learning to let go of the past to live happily in the present.

I picked up Carlinda’s book and smiled out loud when I read her opening poem, titled Dross:

Discarded scraps, gossamer gowns, unread books,
cassette tapes, garish picture frames clutter basements.
Boxes of surplus for another day, piled in corners
of musty closets, drawers stuffed with frayed threads,
coloured in dyes that add years to our complexions,
cloying scents of dusty perfume bottles,
oily cosmetics, filmy pill boxes
behind dinsinfected cabinet doors —

dust, dust everywhere

and everywhere, the stench of things
our hands will not discard, spectres that stare
from every corner of the house, find us dreaming
in the night,

wake us, wake us with a start.

Beautiful! And food for thought while you ponder that overstuffed basement.

I am happy to report that Carlinda has started her own blog. Happy reading!

Why procrastination is your enemy

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

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I thought I was coming down with a cold. In reality, I was coming down with a case of dustitis, a condition that brings with it sneezing and a runny nose, often accompanied by mild headache and itchy eyes.

All it took for dustitis to rear its ugly head was one night spent sleeping in a dusty bedroom that had not been cleaned since I left for a European vacation five weeks earlier. It didn’t help that I had cranked the furnace up when I got home about 11 p.m., exhausted from a flight that was at least three hours too long. Getting warm meant sending dust from other regions of the house swirling into the night air over my bed.

I did give myself one day off to recover from jet lag, but I know when enough is enough. Procrastination will not clear my mind — or my sinuses. No, if I wanted to stop sneezing, I needed to get out the vacuum, the Swiffer and my trusty damp cleaning rags. If I went at it while simultaneously doing the laundry, I knew I could get everything back in order in about four hours. I couldn’t wait to see — and smell — the results of my labour!

As someone who is prone to procrastination, I know it’s best to tackle a housework backlog in one shot. Just do it until it’s done, then get back to a regular maintenance schedule so things don’t pile up and get out of control.

It’s the same with decluttering. I don’t believe in the “baby steps” so beloved by all those decluttering blogs. One blogger, Suzanne, has urged others to join her in her 365 Days of Decluttering Challenge, which is described as a task “to declutter at least one item from our lives per day for the next year.”  Why spend an entire year transforming your home from disaster to clean and clutter-free when you can get it done in a matter of days (if you’re off work), or in four weekends max if you work full-time and your house is in drastic shape?

At the Zen Habits blog, which is “about finding simplicity in the daily chaos of our lives,” creator Leo Babauta suggests we can start living the clutter-free life with just five minutes of our time. “Baby steps are important,” he says. “Sure, five minutes won’t barely make a dent in your mountain, but it’s a start. Celebrate when you’ve made that start!”

I’m all in favour of encouraging folks. But no lesson will be learned in five minutes. And there is certainly nothing to celebrate after five minutes of pondering which one item you’ll be getting rid of today! The first step in every worthwhile venture is making the decision to go full-steam ahead — then sticking with it. That kind of sound decision-making requires a major leap forward.

When it comes to decluttering, procrastination is your enemy, especially if you need to prepare your home for buyers. Want to reap the rewards of a job well done? Draw up your battle plan and get to work — before it gets worse! And don’t stop until the job is finished.

It’s that simple.