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Why procrastination is your enemy

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

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I thought I was coming down with a cold. In reality, I was coming down with a case of dustitis, a condition that brings with it sneezing and a runny nose, often accompanied by mild headache and itchy eyes.

All it took for dustitis to rear its ugly head was one night spent sleeping in a dusty bedroom that had not been cleaned since I left for a European vacation five weeks earlier. It didn’t help that I had cranked the furnace up when I got home about 11 p.m., exhausted from a flight that was at least three hours too long. Getting warm meant sending dust from other regions of the house swirling into the night air over my bed.

I did give myself one day off to recover from jet lag, but I know when enough is enough. Procrastination will not clear my mind — or my sinuses. No, if I wanted to stop sneezing, I needed to get out the vacuum, the Swiffer and my trusty damp cleaning rags. If I went at it while simultaneously doing the laundry, I knew I could get everything back in order in about four hours. I couldn’t wait to see — and smell — the results of my labour!

As someone who is prone to procrastination, I know it’s best to tackle a housework backlog in one shot. Just do it until it’s done, then get back to a regular maintenance schedule so things don’t pile up and get out of control.

It’s the same with decluttering. I don’t believe in the “baby steps” so beloved by all those decluttering blogs. One blogger, Suzanne, has urged others to join her in her 365 Days of Decluttering Challenge, which is described as a task “to declutter at least one item from our lives per day for the next year.”  Why spend an entire year transforming your home from disaster to clean and clutter-free when you can get it done in a matter of days (if you’re off work), or in four weekends max if you work full-time and your house is in drastic shape?

At the Zen Habits blog, which is “about finding simplicity in the daily chaos of our lives,” creator Leo Babauta suggests we can start living the clutter-free life with just five minutes of our time. “Baby steps are important,” he says. “Sure, five minutes won’t barely make a dent in your mountain, but it’s a start. Celebrate when you’ve made that start!”

I’m all in favour of encouraging folks. But no lesson will be learned in five minutes. And there is certainly nothing to celebrate after five minutes of pondering which one item you’ll be getting rid of today! The first step in every worthwhile venture is making the decision to go full-steam ahead — then sticking with it. That kind of sound decision-making requires a major leap forward.

When it comes to decluttering, procrastination is your enemy, especially if you need to prepare your home for buyers. Want to reap the rewards of a job well done? Draw up your battle plan and get to work — before it gets worse! And don’t stop until the job is finished.

It’s that simple.

Turn a cemetery into a positive

Monday, July 6th, 2009

cemeteryAs a kid, it wasn’t unusual to find me hanging out with my friends at the local cemetery.  Sometimes, we’d scare ourselves with tales of the dead arising and chasing us. But, mostly, we searched out the older headstones so we could trace them with paper and pencil. We liked the sounds of those long-dead names on our tongues and competed to find the oldest graves.

When we were tired of running around looking for ancestors, we would throw ourselves on the grass and rest between the graves as the sun warmed our faces. Sometimes, we would have a picnic. It was peaceful and quiet. We felt happy there. For us, playing in the cemetery was no big deal. It was fun.

Apparently not everyone thinks so.

My husband still talks about how, when he was selling his bachelor home in London, Ont., more than a decade ago, a little girl who went to view the house with her mother ran out screaming bloody murder after she spotted the cemetery over the back fence. That nice, quiet neighbour turned out to be a drawback to a quick sale.

And it’s not just cemeteries that can keep your house on the market longer than it should when feng shui practitioners are house-hunting.

When an Ottawa man tried to sell his home in the desirable Westboro area of the capital, he figured it would be a quick sale with multiple offers. It didn’t take long before the price had to be reduced — from $599,000 to $529,000 — because he found his location, across from a funeral home, was a negative for many people. “I had a few agents call with clients, but when they heard where it was, the viewings were cancelled,” he said, adding that he had no idea that a funeral home was considered bad luck.

Call it bad feng shui. Tabitha Miller has an interesting article that explains why trying to sell a home near a cemetery, funeral home and even a hospital can get tricky. As I mentioned in an earlier post, the ancient Chinese art of feng shui is all about location, location, location. You can have the inside designed to maximize that good chi energy, but it won’t mean anything if your home’s location doesn’t have the right balance of yin and yang.

Think of yin as earth, emitting dark energy. And think of yang as sun, emitting light energy. With the right amount of both, we can all lead happy, positive lives. Too much of one and things go wonky.

Cemeteries are yin. That’s why you don’t want your home near one. Who needs all that dark energy?  There are some who believe that cemeteries draw the bright yang energy away from their living neighbours, leaving them at risk of depression, illness and just plain bad luck.

Carol, who lives near a cemetery, posted a comment on this blog asking if there is any way “I can have positive feng shui next to this lovely, tranquil piece of greenspace that just happens to be filled with headstones?” The good news is yes, there are cures for the cemetery blues! Depending who you talk to, you can either paint your house a bright red, a strong yang colour to balance the dark energy, or hang a mirror outside your home to deflect the bad energy away from you.

Even if you aren’t located near a hospital, cemetery or funeral home, you might still find some people turning around and walking away after they see your street address. For example, if your address has a 4 in it, that’s considered bad luck by some Chinese because in Cantonese, “four” sounds like “death.” That same house hunter will be smiling if your address has an 8 in it — it sounds like “prosperous” in Cantonese and signals good luck.

And you thought selling a house was easy!

Like it or not, feng shui can make or break a sale. Even real estate agents are learning feng shui so they know what to show, and what not to show, clients who have adopted the ancient Chinese art as their own rules to live by. Even if you think it’s nothing but superstition, it’s wise to learn what is considered a good feng shui property before you buy — unless you plan to live there for life.